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Entry Like and Like go together.... not always
Posted by Apple23 on Dec 2 2012, 08:05 AM
Hello Hello! Back on here again. Well actually I never left. But I wanted to write up a new post about being black and lesbian in SG.

I think that the consensus among not just Singaporean lesbians but even among straight white Australian women trying to set you up who don't know that you're is that, if you're black you must be attracted to other black people. Well that's not true. I'm not self-hating in any way and I do indeed find black women or most women of color attractive, but I'm very open to dating outside of my race, especially since there's like 8 of us in all of Singapore and like six of them are straight and on my campus, and the other one is a lesbian but in a relationship and the other one is me.

I'm in Singapore and I knew that it would be a challenge to meet black women when I came here, and even more of a challenge to meet lesbians in a strictly, largely heterosexual country, but sometimes I feel that some of yall might be ignoring me because I'm black. And when people here used to stare at me, it used to boggle me, because I'm thinking, "Hey, there are Indians here who are darker than me, and you've been living with them for years. What's the big deal on my skin color?" But I guess because I'm clearly black and not Indian there is a big deal. At least that's what someone told me.

I'm open to meeting women of all races, and shades of course. I'm not bound to just dating black women or brown women. I'd like to widen my circle of friends with as many lesbians if I can whether that be for romantic relationships or just friendships because as I've stated in the last post, straight people annoy the mess out of me. I'm not hating on them, but I just don't have a lot of people like me (gay, not black) around me and it's a very lonely feeling. So, say hello and I'll say hello too and maybe we can be friends, or more... if you're down. But if you're not it's cool. Hope to talk to some of you soon. Please comment if you have anything to say smile.gif

 
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