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ASK THE AUNTS : I've fallen for my (straight) friend! | 19 Aug 2008

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THIS WEEK'S QUESTION:
I've fallen for my (straight) friend!

I've fallen for my (straight) friend! She knows I'm attracted to her but says she isn't into women. Normally I wouldn't pursue this further but she is definitely fuelling my attraction. Last night she sat watching me dance and said it was hard for her to resist me and how she wished she could "go there" with me. She probably just likes the attention and messing with my head! The problem is we are really good friends and of course I don't want to lose that. Should I just be getting over this one?
                 
MISTRESS MAYHEM SAY
Good friends, yeah right! Staight/Gay she obviously wants you and you know it. Lucky you. Sounds like you don't have a problem to me. It sounds like you've had a gift fall out of the sky. I, for one, would grab onto it with both hands and cling on to whatever feels good. Let her know that her wish is your command... and you'll be granting wishes by the dozen before you know it.
Go on be a devil and get on with it!!
     
VIRGIN MARIE SAY
Of course she likes the attention and messing with your head. It's power, and aren't we all attracted by the thought of having a little power over someone? Particularly someone we like and admire? It might be that she doesn't realise that playing like this could easily put your friendship in jeopardy. As I see it, if you really don't think she'll 'go there', then you've got two choices. Ask her to stop and then resolutely ignore any further teasing, or stay away for a while until it cools. Often a little distance and time will break the mood.

 
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Posted by ming11 
on 21/08/2009 07:01 PM
 
It's alright. What is more important? I've been through that & felt as if the world has ended. I always felt that way last time. Then I realised, like so what man... Life ain't going to be fair. I rather keep it as friendship when she said she ain't wanna be gay. We still go for dates but that's it. No holding hands, no kissing - just good times chatting and being with her & making her smile. I live and die with that. Because love is not selfish.
Posted by maygay 
on 02/08/2009 10:18 PM
 
We all fall for straight people. But to me, she seems curious or just wanna play around. She obviously loves the attention she's getting from you. Try not to give too much of it to her and see how things go. :) But honestly, I'd try to get over her.
Posted by Elaine quah 
on 20/02/2009 10:14 PM
 
Me too.:) I like her but i don dare to tel her cas she say she dun like to be gay. haiz
Posted by xiaojonlimles 
on 26/10/2008 10:01 PM
 
Me too... i likes her and she likes me but we know we are not meant for each other... what a idiot i'm...



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