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ASK THE AUNTS : How do I tell if a girl is interested in me at all or not? | 12 May 2008

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THIS WEEK'S QUESTION:
How do I tell if a girl is interested in me at all or not?

We've been texting each other a lot, like from morning till night, almost everyday.. but when I tried to secure a date with her, she rejected me, by telling me that she may have to work overtime as its the month end & will be busy closing accounts, she's an account assistant. I havent try to ask her out again since then..don't know if I should try again, or just wait for her to ask?
                 
MISTRESS MAYHEM SAY
She may feel she's not ready to meet you yet. There are people who are shy, or generally apprehensive when it comes to meeting online people. Also, give yourself more time to understand and know her. Her sms-intensity could be short-term. If it continues to last this way (i.e. texting from morning to night) and she refuses to meet you, then she may have some issues which you better find out. If the intensity dies down, then you know it was probably just short-term interest.
     
VIRGIN MARIE SAY
Generally we know that time is precious and we generally invest time only in people we like (like in the general sense of the word, as in opposite of "dislike", not romantic as yet.) She could actually be telling the truth as that is the case for people who work in Accounts. She just doesn't want to have to cancel on you should she need to work OT. So do give her the benefit of the doubt, and ask her when will be a good time for the both of you to meet. If she's only turned you down once with the above-mentioned excuse, I'd say there's no harm trying again. But make it the last time perhaps.

 
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Posted by ForeverLove 
on 03/08/2008 11:14 PM
 
I have tried dating someone as a friend, and afterwards we no longer talk to each other.
Did something happened? I don't know. Was it lesbo to go out with her?
Posted by nur ain 
on 05/06/2008 10:22 PM
 
hye.. im a femme & my gal is a femme too.. she told me tat she like me but she hardly contact me.. firstly, she doesnt have a handphone coz she lost it.. 2ndly, she did give me her house number but whenever i call her she hardly at home.. and we hardly meet too.. but she keep telling me tat she loves me.. ermm, does she really likes me??
Posted by jinmin 
on 04/06/2008 03:06 AM
 
Hello. I am an andro but i kind of fall in love with a butch.. how do i know whether she have feelings for me? i always take initiative to sms her and ask her out. but, i am afraid she jus treat me as a friend.. anything u can help?


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