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ASK THE AUNTS : My girlfriend has gone off sex | 31 Mar 2008

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THIS WEEK'S QUESTION:
My girlfriend has gone off sex

My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 years. Recently, she has gone off sex. She says it's not me but her, that her feelings haven't changed towards me, she doesn't feel sexual anymore. I really need help.
                 
MISTRESS MAYHEM SAY
She's gone off sex, that's a bummer...or maybe she's just gone off you and is trying to break it gently to you. I know what you're thinking, there are other ways to break it to you right? Because even if she doesn't fancy you anymore what's to stop you having sex once in a while? I mean you're not asking her to marry you or anything lasting...it's just sex.

Give me her number I'll have a go and see if I can talk her round. For you, of course. What do you take me for??
     
VIRGIN MARIE SAY
The good news is that couples who've gone through the honeymoon phase and continue to be loving and sexual have usually built a much deeper bond, and it's this that you need to focus on. If you both still love each other just as deeply, then a temporary blip in the sex life is totally overcomeable. My advice is to give your girlfriend a good listening to. Really really listen with all of your senses, and over weeks. Watch what her body language is saying, and gently draw out stuff she may be shy about. Don't judge or be in any hurry to put your point of view. Just listen. Eventually, what's bothering her will emerge. Fix the issue first, and then worry about the sex life. This article is really excellent on communication.

 
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Posted by medusa0810 
on 16/01/2009 11:46 AM
 
Galfren..Fret and Worry Not.Now I've been with my gf for more than a decade.Yeah,I agree with Virgin Marie.The bond is there and by letting her rest her issues..Who knows she'll be the one all over you instead.
Posted by sharp 
on 20/06/2008 12:44 AM
 
well as long as you guys love each other, i guess sex wont really be an issue right?
Posted by BoredBanker 
on 08/06/2008 03:50 AM
 
I don't believe in the "Lesbian Bed Death"...

Try creating an atmosphere which will get her into the mood...
A short romantic weekend on Bintan? Sitting by the beach and watching the stars?

I've been wanting to try this but alas i'm single...
Try this: Arrange for her to meet you at a bar...get her to sit at the bar and order a drink. "Bribe" the bartender beforehand to bring her a bouquet of flowers and a card with her drink. The card will read "Can i buy you a drink and take you home tonight?".
Posted by wellmaybe 
on 10/04/2008 11:06 PM
 
its called 'Lesbian Bed Death'


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